When you think about a wedding, generally, the first images of proposals that come to mind are those that occur between the prospective groom and bride. Of course, that is the most important proposal of them all, but once you have accepted, there is the not-so-insignificant task of picking your bridesmaids.
Putting together your perfect bridal party is important for making the best memories of the run-up to and your wedding day and that begins with the bridesmaid's proposals.
We think they deserve bridesmaid proposal gifts to really put a cherry on top of the cake. It is commonplace to present bridesmaid gifts on the wedding day to thank them retrospectively, but it is becoming the modern way to make asking them to be your bridesmaid a more personal message marked with a special gift.
Your attendants, and particularly your maid of honor, will play a big part in your day and it's nice to recognize those upcoming bridesmaid duties before they begin. Your wedding planning journey should include deciding on creative bridesmaid proposal ideas that have that all-important personal touch.
To help, here are some great ways to propose to your potential bridesmaids, along with some bridesmaid proposal gift ideas that we think are fail-safe options. You can present them individually or in a group. An engagement party is a great way to do your bridesmaid proposals if you're planning for a large group.
1. Personalized Gifts
Nothing gives a personalized touch like a gift that is personalized to the recipient. When you think about things that you can customize, the list really is almost endless! Without even having to think too hard, there are:
- Wine glasses.
- Personalized jewelry
- Bridesmaid t-shirts.
- Bridesmaid candle jars.
- Something like this dainty, elegant butterfly pendant necklace is perfect for popping into a small gift bag that each of your bridesmaids can open and enjoy.
The thing to remember is that it doesn't necessarily have to be an expensive gift, but gestures that show you have given thought to a personal touch to show you esteem their contribution to the wedding party. Gifting your bridesmaids-to-be should be among your favorite memories of your wedding journey.
2. Handwritten Notes
There is nothing better than receiving a heartfelt note from somebody that is close and dear to you, and one of the most thoughtful gifts we can think of is to write a handwritten card to your bridesmaids to let each one know just how much they mean to you and how much you want them to be involved in your special day.
Pop the personalized message inside a bridesmaid proposal card. This kind of special message in a personalized card is always going to make an impression, and it never hurts to include a little something with it. This sweet love lettering pendant necklace is a perfect bridesmaid proposal gift.
3. Bridesmaid Proposal Box
If you want to go the extra mile and make a grander gesture, then putting together bridesmaid proposal boxes is fun.
You can choose boxes that match the wedding colors you already have in mind and can fill them with all kinds of cool gifts ranging from practical gifts such as lip balm, compact mirrors, nail polish, scrunchies and other beauty products, to more glamorous items like luxury chocolates, scented candles, mini champagne bottles, champagne flutes, bottles of wine and more! And of course, no bridal party proposal gift box is complete without something a little bit sparkly like this rose gold chain bracelet.
4. Surprise Gathering
If you want to ask all of your bridesmaids at the same time, then organize a surprise gathering where they have no idea what is going to happen!
It could be anything from a picnic to a brunch to a day at the spa ... whatever kind of special moment you tend to enjoy with one another. To make it slightly more wedding-themed, there are plenty of party products that can be bought to send the message home once the penny starts to drop!
This is the perfect solution to getting everybody in the same room at the same time so that you can present them with their adorable gifts and pop the question. This pair of modern and unique gold stud earrings has universal appeal and will provide a fond memory every time the ladies wear them.
5. Scrapbook Or Photo Album
Another great idea involves creating a scrapbook or album packed with memories and photographs of the time that you've spent together as a group so far. You can include captions and notes throughout the pages that all lead up to the final page that asks the question... "will you be my bridesmaid?". It is a really sweet and sentimental approach that is guaranteed to touch all of their hearts!
Don't forget to leave space in the album for the memories that have yet to be created, especially those involving the bachelorette party, bridal shower, or a potential destination wedding!
Some people also like to attach a little gift to their scrapbooks for each bridesmaid, and we think that something like this chic silver bangle bracelet is a suitable option.
6. Custom Game Or Puzzle
If you and your prospective bridesmaids are the kind of friendship group who like to play games together, then creating a custom game or puzzle is a great way to set them on the journey of being proposed to!
A popular way to do this is creating cards that have clues and hidden messages on them, leading the girls on something of a treasure hunt that ends with the revelation of the 'will you be my bridesmaid?'. The secret messages can lead to the sweet reveal, and you can always make the moment even more special with the addition of a gift for each bridesmaid like this set of fun and stylish tri-color stackable rings.
We've selected just a few adorable options from our jewelry collection that make great bridesmaid proposal gifts. Feel free to browse Diamond and Design for other ideas.
